There Is Another Way…
Last week I told you how I learned what other people – friends, family, business associates and clients – see as my Unique Abilities. And how blown away I was by the responses. I also recommended that you send your own “Unique Qualities” letter (I hope you gave yourself this gift!)
I hinted about the phenomenal women’s group I belong to and promised more information was coming soon. Well, Soon has arrived!
If you are like me, you’ve spent a lot of time and money on books, workshops and seminars that you thought would help you in your business.
And many of them did. But most were created from a male point of view, and though they provided great information, I always felt something was missing.
Even though men and women are similar in some ways, we are different in the ways we do things and interact with people. I’m tired of only hearing everything from male thinking. I didn’t want to “crush the competition” or “win wars!”
What if there was a way to be a powerful leader, a powerful force in your field or your business, and do that with the strengths you have as a woman? Would that interest you?
My friend and mentor, Sarah Medlicott, has exactly such a program.
I know because I will soon be a graduate of this women’s leadership program. Before entering the program, I felt lost… without anyone who understood my Spirit-based philosophy or my business. Once in the program, I “connected” with a group of women who truly “get” me – who helped me understand deep in my Soul that my unique talents and abilities are what make me a powerful Leader. Now, I have life-long friends who support me, keep me grounded, and whenever I get discouraged, remind me I can do anything my Heart desires because they believe in me!
You’ll want to watch this video as Sarah explains the magic of the Elemental Woman Leadership Program.
http://tinyurl.com/yecjhwa
As you’ll see, this is an amazing program for women. I encourage you to check it out.
To get a PEEK into the actual program, enter your name and email on the same page below the video. Sarah is releasing a video very soon that will have some actionable content taken directly from this amazing program.
Watch the video now, and be sure to sign up… http://tinyurl.com/yecjhwa
You will be so happy you did! You definitely don’t want to miss the next very special video! (You can thank me later!)
Numerology… Questions and Answers
There has been some confusion about how the 9-year cycles in numerology work and I want to answer those questions and clear up the confusion.
We all live our life based on the 9-year cycles in Numerology. Each number 1 through 9 has a specific energy vibration and holds specific intentions for learning in a particular year. Each year is known as your “Personal Year”. All nine numbers always have the same meaning and energy vibrations, no matter where they appear. But the situations and experiences each number can bring forth are infinite. You complete a cycle having learned some lessons during each of the nine years, then you move on to another cycle.
One question asked was: “If you’re smart and learn the lessons in every year of your first cycle, do you start over to learn the same lessons again and again as you live through all the cycles that follow?” The simple answer is no. The full answer is more complex.
First, you most likely are not born in “year 1” of your cycle. The Personal Year of your birth depends solely on your birth date. If you were born on 5/26/1978, adding all the numbers makes this your “2” Personal Year. But if you were born on 5/31/1979, your Personal Year is an “8”. How much conscious learning were you capable of during your infancy and toddler years – at least in the realms of higher learning and awareness? This birth year number is also known as your Birth Force number, giving a hint of your God-given ability and challenges.
Then as you live and learn in each cycle, your awareness and understanding increases, moving you to the next level. So the next cycle will offer lessons of greater learning intensity than the previous cycle. It’s very much like how you learned about numbers in school – preschool taught what 1, 2, 3 looked like and how to write them; elementary school taught you how to add, subtract, multiply and divide; and high school was about algebra, geometry etc. You weren’t taught the same lessons each year unless you forgot some from the previous year – then you had to review and relearn.
It’s the same with each cycle in numerology – you move up to higher levels of learning – unless you didn’t learn, forgot or slid backward to your old ways and must relearn your lessons. Think of them as pre-requisites you must have before moving on to a new level of learning in the next cycle.
Another question asked was: “If I pay attention at the beginning of my personal year and learn my lesson early, am I done for that year?” Again, the simple answer is no, but of course there’s more to it than that.
Think of your Personal Year as having a lesson “theme,” not just one simple lesson. For example, as you progress through a 4-year, you could be learning about being organized or following rules. Each situation you experience will be different and possibly a bit more difficult at your current level of knowledge and understanding. As you experience different situations and learn the necessity of organization or following rules, you gain understanding that takes you to a higher level. As the year progresses, new situations and experiences are presented to offer ever higher learning. So by the end of the year, you really get that lesson theme.
However, if you’ve rejected each experience and situation for learning and considered them to be someone else’s fault, or something that happens TO you, you have just set yourself up for nine more years of the same lesson coming back over and over to bite you! And this will be true even if after 5 years you finally learn it – situations and experiences WILL continue so as to cement that lesson in your mind!
Remember, there are always reasons you must learn particular lessons during your life, even if you can’t see them or know what they are. You could be stuck on a lesson you should have learned at age 16, 27, or 40 and you cannot continue to the next level in your life plan or purpose until you complete the pre-requisites.
Learning lessons in the year they come up will make your life SO much easier!
Demand… or Listen?
I just “got” this big AH HA – I can’t take credit for thinking of this myself - I’m sure it was a message from my Inner Guide or Spirit.
In my recent post on metaphors, I was told to “listen” more and DO less. Now, I thought I’d been doing the listen part a lot better lately, since this is not the first time I’ve gotten this message… but I guess not! So I’ve been really making it a point to sit every day doing nothing but listening. I guess just the daily part is helping, but I still don‘t always hear anything even though I ask questions. I don’t always get an answer. So I wondered what I was doing wrong… I’m listening – or so I thought.
Then one morning as I was meditating and listening, someone’s face popped into my mind. I realized that person was asking for help through Soul to Soul contact, and I immediately sent positive Healing Energy… not thinking about anything but helping. This happened several times over the period of a week.
Suddenly, during one of these distance energy sessions, I heard the message Spirit was sending…not with my ears but in my mind! Just like that… no effort required! Then I heard again and again during quiet times in meditation. Wow… I didn’t know it could be so easy! Just sit, be quiet, breathe and listen… who knew!
I know everyone for whom meditating and listening are “old hat” are slapping your heads and saying DUH! But we all have to learn at our own pace. I guess I’m just a bit slower. Or perhaps at my age I’ve been doing things the same old way for SO long, it’s taking awhile to dig out the old ways from my psyche and add new methods.
Anyway, each time the messages from Spirit were clearer, and answered questions I’d asked weeks or months ago. I became consciously aware that it was my desire to help with no expectation of being paid or receiving anything in return that made the difference. You know, we often are told by gurus that giving freely is what helps us manifest our desires, but we don’t always totally understand how that translates into our real life.
Today I was really open and Listening and received many messages - or what I call downloads – specific to my business and how my thinking must change. And it hit me… though now in a “1” year, I’m still transitioning from last year’s “9” of releasing the old to let in the new. Even after 30 years practicing numerology I’m still in awe about how perfectly the “Personal Year” energy vibration works.
What’s the BEST message I received today? Demanding is not LISTENING! Listening is easy… simply be still, erase everything from my mind and DO nothing! That’s it… so EASY! Who knew?
I’m telling you this because I thought perhaps someone may get something from my experience and learning. Feel free to leave you comments here.
What Makes You Unique?
If you have been following me on Twitter, FaceBook or this blog, you probably know 2009 was a “9” Personal Year for me…busy all year clearing and purging accumulated old “stuff” and old thinking which no longer serves me (wow…there was a ton!) which completed one more 9-year cycle in my learning. And 2010 is my “1” Personal Year of new beginnings – courage, new plans and stepping into my leadership role.
Taking the bull by the horns…so to speak, the very beginning of January I participated in a women’s leadership retreat to learn what leader is going to mean for me in 2010 and how I could even be qualified to be a Leader.
I must tell you now…WOW! I connected with a phenomenal group of women and the most awesome leader and coach I’ve ever worked with! I can’t recommend this group highly enough. If you are an entrepreneur with plans to ramp up your business OR are just in the beginning stages and want to join a talented, loving, supportive group under an inspiring, spiritual coach who embodies the role of Leader with Joy, Fun, Honesty and Love, this is THE group for you! I will be sharing more about this amazing group very soon!
What I do want to share with you today is one of our assignments – don’t worry, it’s nothing like what we had to do in school. There is no one checking up on homework…this is strictly for our own benefit.
The task was to send out a letter…it was even written for us…to everyone I know – family, friends, associates, clients – requesting feedback about my unique talents, gifts and qualities. What did they see in me that stood out when I enter a room, join a group or speak with anyone? What made ME Unique?
Remember, no one was checking up on me, so I put it off . I allowed my FEAR about giving everyone I knew carte blanche to tell me what they thought stop me for awhile. But my inner guide kept nudging me to go ahead and do it – don’t be afraid! So I took the plunge and sent the letter, pushing the send button with shaking hand. After all, in my mind I was jumping into the icy waters of truth - but you know what they say…the Truth shall set you Free!
I am SO happy I did! I received the most amazing responses describing what people saw in me. They gave me the awesome Gift of seeing myself through their eyes – instead of through my eyes…with all my doubts and limiting beliefs. What a Glorious Gift! It enabled me to see myself in a brand new light…and I will forever view my Self differently!
If you want to see a whole new Self you never new existed, ask everyone you know what they see as your most unique qualities and abilities. You don’t even have to write a letter…just ask. You will be awed by the responses…you WILL view yourself differently and in a new light!
I offer my deepest gratitude to everyone who was moved to respond. And for the women who haven’t sent out that letter yet…you know who you are…I can’t encourage you strongly enough to give yourself this gift. The Benefits you receive will hugely outweigh the fears holding you back. You won’t be sorry!!
Soul Journey Metaphors
Last year when my good friend and amazing, channelling facilitator offered new sessions for past life regressions, I jumped at the chance. You see… I’ve worked with her for several years and regularly scheduled sessions to get her help from her guides and mine. Connecting with my guides is a quick and simple way to get targeted information about my life and business, and have my most pressing questions answered.
Recently, I listened to the recording of this session, and of course, was reminded of where I keep veering off my path and what I must do to stay on course. To be honest, my session wasn’t really about a specific past life as much as it was a metaphor for my soul’s journey during my lifetime.
Her session is very quiet and relaxing as she connects with her source and begins my visualization. It is different for each person, so I can’t speak about anything but my own experience. She saw me on a grassy mountain top. I’m on horseback, and begin going downhill toward a thickly wooded area. Here I must leave my horse and continue on foot along a grassy path. It’s not well marked, and I don’t really know where I’m going. But something is pulling me along, and I feel confident that it’s the right thing to do. Eventually I encounter a WISE BEING… my HIGHER SELF, who explains that my Journey along this path is a Metaphor for what I do with My Life. My HIGHER SELF tells me about all my gifts and how I’m still not using them according to my PURPOSE. My HIGHER SELF explains that I have ALL I need within me RIGHT NOW to live my PURPOSE full out! But I must connect with my Higher Wisdom and listen, instead of looking to others and going outside myself for answers. Just LISTEN, BELIEVE, and ACCEPT my inner guidance, and I will never go wrong…
As I reflected on all heard during this session, I truly “see” how it is a metaphor for how I’ve lived my life.
Are you seeking answers to long held questions?
Do you feel confused about what to do in your life?
Can you see a pattern in your life?
If you just want some clarity about something in your life, perhaps you need the METAPHOR for your life to help you get back on track. Sometimes we are too close to our questions to get the answer, and just need another perspective. What could be better than answers from our own inner wisdom! I’m back in touch with mine and I’m back on track!
If you would like this amazing experience and learn the METAPHOR for YOUR LIFE, leave your comments here, or email me at marilynn@healinghandsanalyst.com
Your House Number…Apartments and Condos
After the last article on the influence of your home’s energy vibration, I realized I didn’t talk about how living in apartments and condos can affect your living conditions and life. It is important to know that your apartment unit number or letter adds an additional influence to that of your house or building address.
For everyone living in an apartment or condo building, your unit number or letter is the key to what is expected of you personally while living under the influence and conditions of the building address number. You use the same method of adding together all digits in your unit number as you previously used to figure out your house number.
Say your address number calculates to a 1 and you are living in unit #103 – you are influenced by the 1 to encourage independence, originality and determination while also living up to the 4 (add 1+0+3 from unit number) for practicality, attention to detail, organization, and adhering to the rules.
However, living in the same building in unit #407, you still have the same 1 influence from the building address, but your experiences will center around the 2 energy (add 4+0+7=11, then remembering the rule: always add numbers till you get a single digit, 11 is 1+1= 2) requiring you to be tactful and cooperative with others, perhaps even requiring negotiations in some way.
If units in your building are assigned by letter, you must also incorporate the energy represented by the letter in your main address. To figure out the number for your letter write the numbers 1 through 9 in a column on a sheet of paper, then assign the letters A through I to each number in the column…A = 1, B = 2, C = 3, D = 4, etc). Now start with 1 again and assign the next 9 letters (J through R) to each of the numbers in the same manner. Then complete assigning the remaining letters in the alphabet (S through Z) in the same way so Z is assigned to the 8. Locate the number for the letter (or letters) of your unit and if there is more than one number, add them together just as you would if your unit was numbered instead of lettered.
You can see that living in a multi-unit building adds an additional layer of influence to your living conditions and the expectations of your address number. You are still under the primary energy of your main address, but must incorporate the additional energy represented by your unit number.
This is all good, positive and helpful – no matter the number and its intention for living there. Just knowing your home’s expectations can change negative feelings of unhappiness and a desire to leave to completely opposite feelings of joy at living in a wonderful space!
If you are not happy in your present location and plan to move, first check out your address and its energy vibration. Does your home carry an energy, intention and expectation you’re not familiar with or never experienced? Have you been working in opposition to your home’s expectations? Try giving your home and yourself a second chance by cooperating with its intention for living in its space. I truly believe there are no accidents…there IS a purpose for you in being in this specific place. Allow yourself to absorb what your home is trying to teach and you might find this home to be your Best Place Ever.
Your Home…a Red or Green Zone?
The red light at an intersection is a signal to stop…warning of crossing traffic. The danger is not in the red light, it just signals a danger, describes the situation and advises what to expect and how to act. In the same way a number, wherever it’s found, describes a situation and advises what to expect in advance, allowing one to make knowledgeable decisions.
As I surveyed the chaos in my office today, I was reminded of the energy vibration that my home holds…a 4. Since a home’s address is made up of numbers, the address relays information a house wants us to know about it. The 4 is all about organization, neatness and following the rules. If you are someone who goes against rules and wants to do things your own way, a 4 home could be a difficult place to live.
For instance, growing up I lived in a 7 house, a very quiet place with few uninvited visitors and very conducive to studious undertakings. Later I moved to different places, and each residence held a 5 energy vibration. WOW! What a Big Change! I went from the quiet 7 to the chaotic, eventful 5 house of constant surprises! It seemed no matter what I planned, things went wrong and had to be changed at the last minute…I thought there was something wrong with ME! It would have been SO helpful and reassuring to know these surprise events were not my fault, but all part of the house‘s energy and intention.
I also lived in a 9 home (also my Destiny number) for a short time…a wonderful place where I felt compelled to do things for the betterment of others more than myself. Now I live in a 4 house – requiring systemization, organization and strict adherence to any and all rules (not always my strongest point.)
Now as I look back, I can see how the energy vibration of each house helped in my learning and growth process. Read the rest of this entry »
Fits Like a Glove
I must apologize for being offline and not posting since last week. But I do have a good reason…last week I attended another wonderful women’s leadership retreat along with the most amazing, supportive, generous group of women led by Sarah. I’ll have more on this fabulous group in the future.
Then I immediately flew to Washington to meet with my new business strategy coach for an all day one-on-one brainstorming session to map out and plan my business for 2010. Although I was pretty certain this was a great decision, I really had no idea what to expect or what form her coaching would take.
WOW!! What an awesome experience this has been! We started with My Vision for my business. We did some brainstorming of how that vision could become reality, then began mapping out projects, looked at projections, planned a calendar of events, analyzed the requirements for each project and created an action plan to make everything happen in the desired order. We designed a “To Do” list to keep me on track and prioritized them to help me maintain focus.
This session could not have worked out better. I am so excited about my plans and what is coming in 2010! I actually have a Plan, a calendar of events and a to-do list to keep me focused. One of my coach’s greatest gifts…and she has many…is her ability to see the “Big Picture” for my business, then translate it into something tangible.
There were many coaches to choose from, but I chose her because I realized that she truly “gets” me…all of me, including the spiritual part…and what I want to accomplish. She gave me a window to see the Possibilities. She also showed me how it can be SO much easier…projects I gave up on or didn’t think I could do because I didn’t know how.
And now I’m hooked…even though it is the first time I’ve hired and worked with a coach at this level, it is definitely not the last. Until now I’ve been trying to do all this myself. NO MORE !
I learned a huge lesson – and that is: every entrepreneur must have a coach. My coach” fits me like a glove.” And that is what I wish for each and every one of you reading this. Find a coach who really “gets” you and your business in every way. Then stick with them and allow them to do their magic. They are worth their weight in gold to you and your business!
No…I’m not giving out her name. Perhaps in the future…but right now I’m keeping her all to myself!!
Begin 2010 on the Right Foot!
Happy New Year and New Decade Everyone!!
2010 is now upon us…it is so amazing how quickly the first decade of the 21st Century has flown by! I don’t know if it’s just me – the older I get, the faster the days, months, years go by – or if everyone is noticing the same speed up of time?!
When I think back to my life in 2000, I am really shocked at how different my thinking, ideas, attitudes and life were then compared to now! Some of these changes I made consciously and others God and the Universe foisted on me for my greatest and highest good. Not that I willingly accepted the forced changes nor was I aware at the time they were for my own good. But in looking back later I gradually realized that the Universe and God truly had my best interests in mind and it is these experiences that set me on the Right Path to my Purpose. I have to admit I wasn’t always a willing participant…but resisting and fighting them just made my life more difficult. I’ve finally come to realize God (the Universe) is a lot smarter than I am and has a Master Plan for my life. Things go much easier and smoother in my life when I accept and go with the flow…it really is for my greatest and highest good!
That is not to say I’m just sitting back doing nothing…only waiting for things to happen! (We must take action on each step as the plan unfolds before us.) Within His Plan I have plans of my own for 2010…lots of them! And I’ll be sharing them with you as the months fly by this year.
So in this first week of the new year I believe it would be very useful for everyone to first look back at 2009…what occurred throughout the year and how your year progressed. What was the theme through the year…what was your year in 2009 in the numerological cycle 1 – 9? Did you have a 1-year of new beginnings, a 5-year of many changes, a 9-year of endings & letting go or something else?
If you haven’t already done so, you’ll want to figure “your year” Read the rest of this entry »
What’s Your Body Telling You?
Do you ever wonder what your body is REALLY trying to tell you?
You know….like when you have a sore back or neck that bothers you while you are working on an important project, a tickle or frog in your throat when you are about to speak to a client or prospect, or knots in your stomach when you are doing something like sending invoices to your clients?
Usually you are trying to do something productive and it feels like your body is trying to sabotage you by bringing on an illness, ache, or pain right at the time you need the most energy and vitality!
There you are feeling low in energy…Frustrated, Irritated, Annoyed.
You think…what is going on with my body and why can’t I just concentrate on the important things that are going on in my business?
Did you ever consider that the aches, pains and feelings you have in your body could be related to the blocks that are holding you back in your business…
You might be used to Gurus, coaches, and teachers telling you that they are the only ones with the answers and you must follow their system in order to succeed. The truth is YOU already know deep inside you, everything you need to know to be successful and fulfill your purpose! You just need to be reminded about how to tap into the power of your own Body’s Brilliance and use your incredible energy system that’s lying in wait to propel you through business blocks and into your full Prosperity and Power.
I want to introduce you to THE woman who’s got the techniques that trigger those memories deep inside of you which allow your Body’s Brilliance to come to the surface and reveal your true path to Balance and Abundance.
To get huge shifts and break through physical, emotional and Business blocks, you not only need to understand the information she going to share with you — you actually need to use experiential exercises that remind you how to tap into the incredible brilliance that your body holds.
Then you need to learn how to apply it directly to your own life and business.
And this is exactly what Krista Hearty, Entrepreneur Energy Coach, is going to share with YOU on her upcoming F.ree Teleclass:
“7 Steps to Unleash the Brilliance of Your Body: Breaking Through Business Blocks Using the Power of the Chakras”
Join her on Wednesday January 6th from 2-3pm EST for this F.ree inspirational and experiential Teleclass. Grab your spot right now by registering here:
http://www.yoga4entrepreneurs.com/teleclass/
I already have mine and I’ll ‘SEE’ you on the call!
P.S. Here is what one of Krista’s listeners had to say about her last teleclass on this topic:
“Through Krista’s masterful direction, I am uncovering and moving through internal blocks that have held me back from the fullest expression of my success. If you are looking for a soulful and intuitive approach to building your business and making heart-centered decisions about it, then this is the Teleclass for you!” ~Joanna Lindenbaum joanna@soulfulcoach.com www.soulfulcoach.com
P.S.S. Being an Entrepreneur is one of the most profound paths to personal growth you can experience and there are bound to be bumps along the way that can be lessened if you are well guided. If you sense that there is power within you that has yet to be unleashed then be sure to register for this inspirational and experiential teleclass: http://www.yoga4entrepreneurs.com/teleclass/
